Jesus taught us that manages a divine institution, that "What God has joined together, let no man put asunder." (Matt. 19:6) Divorce is a part of society, but it is not God's ideal. People make mistakes, which God forgives, and we are taught to as well. A destructive, abusive relationship is also not God's ideal. If you are experiencing the problems that all married couples have - with sharing, gaining understanding, quarrels - then patience, prayer and time may be the cure. But deeper problems - for example, a history of physical and mental abuse - need Christian counseling for both parties, so that both may forgive and be forgiven, and heal.